Friday, May 8, 2015

WORDS FROM MOTHERS (SWINGS AND SINGS TO SLEEP)

Mother's day is coming, but I don't really know the exact date of it. According to the Holy Bible, Eve is the first mother of the humanity. I am sharing this, about mothers. Mother put me in a hammock swung and sang me to sleep, son you please sleep I sing you to sleep, don't cry baby, wake up i have you snacks, grow up wisely ... Mother for me is and person who never give up on me ( me and my youngest sister were in a serious sick when we were young, my aunt in-law said "throw them into well" guess what !!! Mamma didn't give up on us, right now my tear is boiling). Mother for me is the one who never say lazy to provide us, a mother who responded for 5 kids, she made banana cakes and I walked to sell them all. Mother for me is the one who will never shame just for your needs, my mother asked help from my uncle to provide us rice, house, land after we left our homeland. Mother for me is, the one who proud of me ( She always tell people about me, graduated from University, can speak fluent English ...). Mother for me is, the one who stand by my site, she has never silent to see me hurt when I couldn't speak out. Mother for me is, the one who has a dream for me, a dream that myself will living in a very great live. Mother for me is, the one who is always correct me [ ( Son!!! you shouldn't spend too much money, use your money wisely), my second mother (the founder of the orphanage where I spent my 14 years) said: if you are lazy, you will take your wife to dance in bar.]
     Mother is the one who suffered to let you out with your first scream, her pain delivered you, her tears, sweats just to hear your very first crying. I am not a mother, but I have a mother, sorry to those who has no mother. "For whoever does the will of God is My brother, sister and mother #Jesus", not all the mother are good, but truly we are appreciate their great loves upon us. Why I say this, mothers selling their daughters to be sex slave, she does gambling and sold her daughter to get some money for pay debts. Some girls were tempted by their mothers to sell their virgins because they think it is the easy way to earn money. If you think it is not true, you can do research in Cambodia sex trafficking. Step-mothers, aunties ... why people are so selfish? There are many NGOs are working with them the victims, give them skills to be a good mother in the future. We are sad when news say a father killed two kids with the mother and himself in the end. Violence, poverty, uneducated lives ... bring a sad mother. When a mother is sad, her little baby inside also sad. Actually I don't want to share this in this article, because mainly here is for mother days. But when elephant die, you can't use bucket to cover it. I am blessed to be born with my mother. Fourteen years I grew up with mother Sakada and other mothers who guided me to be a greater person, they didn't sell me, her words "To build up an orphanage is not to sell the kids, I hate people using children as their businesses". She is a great mother, mentor, teacher ... with strong commitments, she built up leaders. I am blessed to be one of them who were a fruit of her.
   'Honor your father and your mother,’ and, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' Said Jesus. Mother needs you when she become older. Don't leave her too long, teach your children to love her, so that your grandchildren also remember you when you getting older. Everything is just like a circle, cow eat grasses, human eat cow, human's body give fertilize to grasses. It depends how much you paid to other, you will get that much back to you. My boss said, no one had paid her lunch or ice-cream yet in my country (Cambodian friends). Honor your father and mother, so your children would learn from you and your family will be blessed.


-----------------------------------------HAPPY MOTHER DAYS-------------------------------------------------
HAPPY MOTHER DAYS